Every experience leaves you with something. Not the events themselves — those fade and shift and change shape depending on the season you are in when you look back at them. But the lessons underneath the events. The things that got into you so deeply that they became part of how you move through the… Continue reading

Thematic Post There is a grief that nobody names properly. Not the grief of losing someone. Not the grief of a death or an ending that the world recognises and makes space for. But the grief of losing a future that was never going to arrive. The grief of realising — slowly, over years, in… Continue reading

I want to talk about something that I think gets lost in the fog of loving someone through addiction. And quite honestly, this doesn’t even pertain just to addiction. This is quite honestly about loving someone you probably just should not.  The baseline. What a relationship is actually supposed to look like. What it is… Continue reading