My Seasons
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THE WOMEN – A LOOKING GLASS INTO BETRAYAL
I usually do a Seasons post with a follow on as a thematic. This subject, I have written differently. It tells of my seasons and is intertwined with the thematic, as it is a subject that is so triggering and so painful – and I did not want anyone feeling triggered without the tools to… Continue reading
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White Powder and Broken Promises
It becomes a problem. His use of drugs is not stopping. What do I do? I was in my late teens. I don’t know how to deal with this. I’ve never touched a drug in my life apart from one puff of a joint when I was in my early teens — didn’t like how… Continue reading
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Seasons: The One and How It All Began
There are 3 scenarios I remember as if they were yesterday, I just don’t recall in which order they happened. The lights are flashing, music blaring, pumping through my veins. Rocking out in my white dress, make up on point, I’m on top of the world. I don’t talk on the dance floor, I am… Continue reading
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Before him – Who I was
My childhood does not fit the narrative the psychology world would have you believe. You do not have to come from a broken home, a bad neighbourhood, or a damaged family to find yourself loving an addict. I am proof of that. My parents divorced when I was too small to even remember. Both my… Continue reading
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How To Use This Blog As A Healing Tool — A Note Before You Begin
Before you read a single section of these pages, I want to talk to you about how to use it. Because this is not a blog you read the way you read most things. You do not open it on a Tuesday morning with your coffee and scroll through it the way you scroll through… Continue reading
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The Honest Side of Healing — The Looking Glass
For the ones who loved them through it. If you have found your way here, I am both grateful and sorry. Grateful because it means you are seeking something — understanding, healing, a hand to hold in the dark – and my hope is that you find it here. Sorry, because finding yourself here means… Continue reading